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Are you parenting with a narcissistic partner or ex?
I can help you preserve your sanity, take your life back and help your children thrive.
Is co-parenting possible?
Society will force you to reconcile. Family and friends would expect you to co-parent because they believe it’s what’s best for children. Deep down, you may want to co-parent for the sake of the children. In some cases, the court may have ordered you to co-parent.
But, the reality is,
You have a better chance of bumping into a unicorn that farts rainbows than meeting a narcissist who agrees to co-parent mutually.
The chaos a narcissist creates in your life is not something that anyone would understand. The damage is unfathomable to you and to your children. But, you know that already.
Your ability to be present and build genuine connections with your children is the antidote to the narcissist’s attempts to alienate you, trash you to the children, gaslight your children, and use your children against you.
What my clients have experienced
"Nisanka has been helping me cope with the worst period of my life. She has helped me ground myself with compassion, sensitively listened to my fears, and helped me see that I do have the power within me to bring about positive change. With her guidance, I have been able to practice finding peace within my body which has then enabled me to make choices that are rooted in self-knowledge rather than out of blind fear. Thank you, deeply, Nisanka". Rachel D
Re-building myself. I have worked with Nisanka for over 2 years zoom calls, last minute phone calls, messages, emails, she is always there to offer support and guidance. Nisanka helps me work through any obstacle I face and helps me navigate through them effectively. Recently I have found myself looking back over our time and realising how much impact she has had on my decision making, helping me grow into a stronger more confident version of myself. I find myself giving support to friends, colleagues and students sharing the knowledge she has taught me along the way. Looking back on my own personal journey, I’m realising how truly amazing Nisanka is, she checks in on me to see how I am (usually when I need her the most) she just knows. The level of service she offers is above and beyond. I appreciate all Nisanka has and continues to provide and I am thankful she came into my life when she did 😇💛#forevergrateful
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Many thanks
Sharlene Davis
"After years of struggling to parent with a narcissist who clearly only wants to hurt me but acts like their interests are for the child. It is a great relief to find Nisanka, someone who has lived this, and come out the other side, strong, informed and compassionate, able to help others. I feel I've found someone who will be able to support me on this difficult journey and find a place of peace, acceptance and enable me to do the best I can for our child." - J
"The rating I want to give the session we did is simply not possible!
There is no score that is high enough or that I can give you the credit you deserve! It was and is without a doubt the best course or piece of work I have ever done in all my years in my working career.
Your ability to home in on my emotions the way you did is unreal and I have NOT stopped talking to everyone around me about the hour we had. It had a profound impact on me, one that will stay with me for a very long time.
I do not just feel extremely fortunate but actually really humbled to have been given the opportunity to work with you. THANK YOU!.
As you were able to work out within minutes I am gong through a really difficult time at the minute with my line manager and the way you were able to guide me through the emotions I have related directly to that was a surreal experience.
Your ability to guide me through the minefield of doubt, fear, and your encouragement to come out of the shadows to reassure me that it is ok to feel the emotions I feel was something that will never forget.
I came out of the session feeling not just empowered but “normal” and that it was not me that was the issue but the person that is displaying the behaviours that I have believed and keep being told by that individual were wrong all along.
It’s ironic how victims start to doubt themselves and the world they find themselves in. They start to question everything that deep down they know does not need to be questioned.
I have looked more into Narcissistic personalities and I am speechless at the traits these kind on individuals have when compared to my manager.
Thank you so much for giving me the tools that you did and for spending the last 30minutes to support me with mechanisms to avoid being caught up in the “games” that as you said feed their ego’s.
On a personal note you are one of the most kindred spirits I have ever met, one of the kindest most beautiful people too, your energy and positivity is unreal. I really hope that our paths meet again and that someday we are able to work together again in the future.
I keep reading the words I put down when you asked me to write to myself and say something to yourself where everything is perfect.
“I am going to fulfil my destiny and I am Special”! Thank you for helping me see that again!
No words can describe or give you credit for the impact you had on me and from the very depths of my heart I wish you all the very best for the future. You are a beautiful person don’t you ever forget either!
With the deepest gratitude and sincerity (yes you’ve done it again, lol the tears are flowing)"
Natasha Burney
"Thank you so much for the beautiful session we had last week. It has left me soothed, calmed and so optimistic. So much needed. Thank you.🌷🌹 And now the big news: I HAVE WOOOOOOOOOON THE COURT CASE❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️" - NK
"I just wanted to say. I appreciate you and my prayer for you is that you are able to reach more women.
You are so fantastic at what you do. Seriously!!
They should commission you to do work at domestic abuse charities and even go into schools to educate young girls. It is so needed! (And all of this I say, but it may not even be of interest to you. Lol)." - FM
Workshop
- 2 hour Workshop
- Recordings (Live attendance is strongly advised)
- A Workbook And Slides To The Workshop
- Bonus resources - script to de-escalate outbursts
Starter Kit:
- 90 Minute Workshop on Co-Parenting With A Narcissist 101
- A Workbook And Slides To The Workshop
- Bonus EFT Video To Help You Release Fear
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